Unbreakable and Irreplaceable

Unbreakable and Irreplaceable:
The Self-Loyal Woman

A 3-Day Luxury In-Person Experience
boston, ma | november 13-15, 2026

Self-Leadership for the woman who is done abandoning herself to be loved, chosen, approved of or safe.

You didn't just survive a bad relationship.

You surivived a lifetime of being trained to disappear.

You know the truth about what happened. You see the manipulation.

You’ve done the work to break free.

And yet…

You still catch yourself abandoning your own needs to keep the peace. You still feel guilty for having boundaries.

You still wonder if you’re “too much”, not enough, too demanding, too sensitive, too needy, too angry or too complicated.

You still feel split between the woman who knows better and the one who wants to be liked, needed, and approved of.

This isn’t just about him anymore. It’s about the deeper training that started long before he ever walked into your life.

The training that taught you to be easy, pleasant, likeable, low-maintenance, and endlessly available.

This retreat is where that will change.

This is where it changes

Unbreakable and Irreplaceable is an intimate, luxury-level 3-day weekend experience in Boston designed for women who are ready to stop performing, over-functioning, and self-abandoning – and finally become the self-led woman they were always meant to be.

We’re not doing surface-level healing or endless venting about the past.

We’re going to the root: the lifelong conditioning around goodness, loyalty, guilt, duty, and self-sacrifice that keeps so many incredible women stuck – even after the relationship ends.

You will be truly seen and heard as an individual – not just as part of a group. With a small, carefully held circle of women, Lisa and Dr. Peter create space for real transformation, deep connection, and the kind of personal attention that makes this feel like a private Boston retreat.

Hear From Your Hosts...

Nestled in the beautiful Back Bay area of Boston, this luxury retreat blends powerful healing with memorable experiences.

during unbreakable

How You Change

Notice when guilt is trying to make a decision for you, instead of assuming guilt means you are doing something wrong.
Recognize the old roles you slip into, the fixer, the peacekeeper, the responsible one, the over-explainer, the one who carries everything, and start choosing differently.
Stop treating someone else’s disappointment, anger, silence, or discomfort like an emergency you have to solve.
Separate what actually belongs to you from what you were trained to carry.
Notice the moment you begin abandoning yourself in real time, not three days later when you’re exhausted and resentful.
Set limits without needing to build a courtroom-level defense for why you’re allowed to have them.

kathy's story from past unbreakable events

Kathy left feeling stronger, steadier, and more able to move through the world without losing herself.

When Kathy came to Unbreakable in Dana Point, she was nervous, unsure, and rebuilding trust in herself after a relationship that had taught her to question her own reality. By the end of the weekend, she said she felt like she was standing on the doorstep of living her life in a new way.

Months later, Kathy joined us at Unbreakable again in Toronto, not because she was starting over, but because she was ready for the next layer. She wanted to keep strengthening herself, deepen her self-trust, and become more anchored in who she was becoming. She left feeling stronger, steadier, and more able to move through the world without losing herself.

unbreakable boston 2026

Workshop Schedule

Friday – See the Conditioning

Workshop 1: The Good Woman Training
Workshop 2: When Survival Becomes Identity
Social Outing: City Tour of Boston

Saturday – Break the Old Internal Contract

Workshop 3: The Inner Split
Workshop 4: Guilt, Duty, and the Fear of Disappointing People
Workshop 5: The End of Over-Responsibility
Workshop 6: The Cost of Being Needed

Sunday – Become Self-Led

Workshop 7: Rebuilding Internal Authority
Workshop 8: Self-Loyalty Under Pressure
Workshop 9: The Self-Led Woman

Social & Destination Highlights

Friday evening Whole-Group Social Outing in Boston
Saturday evening VIP Dinner
Sunday Closing Lunch & Photos

meet your facilitator

Lisa Sonni

Lisa Sonni is a trauma bond recovery expert, 5x author, and certified relationship coach with over 13,000 hours of coaching experience.

After breaking her own trauma bond, she built one of the largest educational platforms in the world focused on trauma bond recovery and post-relationship rebuilding.

Her work has helped thousands of women reclaim clarity, self-trust, and independence after abusive relationships.

meet your facilitator

Dr. Peter Salerno

Dr. Peter Salerno, PsyD, LMFT, is a psychotherapist, author, and trauma-informed educator specializing in complex trauma and pathological relationship dynamics.

With decades of clinical experience, his work focuses on dismantling trauma-based belief systems and helping survivors rebuild confidence and psychological stability.

Together, Lisa and Peter create a powerful, trauma-informed container that blends deep psychological insight with practical, soul-level healing.

Unbreakable is for YOU if...

You've left the relationship but still feel stuck in old patterns
You're tired of guilt controlling your decisions
You constantly put yourself last and are ready for that to change
You want boundaries that don't collapse under pressure
You want to trust yourself again
You're exhausted from over-functioning and carrying everyone else's emotional weight
You're ready to stop surviving and start truly living
You crave meaningful connection with women who genuinely understand what you've been through

Still not sure if Unbreakable is right for you? Email hello (at) lisasonni.com with questions OR click here to book a free 10-minute discovery call with Lisa to get your questions answered about the event.

Laura's story from unbreakable toronto 2026

Laura left with tools, clarity, community, and a stronger sense that she didn’t have to keep moving through life alone, unsure, or disconnected from herself.

Laura came to Unbreakable in Toronto after leaving her marriage and spending months in survival mode, trying to manage housing, finances, safety, healing, and the question underneath all of it: “Who am I now?”

She had found Lisa’s videos only a few weeks before the event and immediately felt understood. When she realized the workshop was happening less than an hour from her, she knew she needed to be in that room. By the end of the weekend, Laura wasn’t just thinking about what happened to her. She was beginning to see herself differently.

She left with tools, clarity, community, and a stronger sense that she didn’t have to keep moving through life alone, unsure, or disconnected from herself.

She came in trying to survive the aftermath. She left with a clearer connection to the woman she was becoming.

about back bay, boston

Destination Highlights

Nestled in the beautiful Back Bay area of Boston, this luxury retreat blends powerful healing with memorable experiences.

Enjoy elegant venues, waterfront views, world-class hospitality, and intentional social moments filled with connection, laughter, and joy alongside the deep work.

Boston in November offers crisp fall air and iconic sights — the perfect backdrop for both reflection and celebration.

Ready to Become Unbreakable and Irreplaceable?

This is more than a retreat. It’s more than a weekend.

It’s the weekend you remember as the turning point — the moment you stopped disappearing and started leading your own life.

Spots are intentionally limited to preserve the intimate nature of this experience and ensure every woman receives personal attention and support.

choose your package

Unbreakable Live Experience

Focused on insight, embodiment, and transformation during the weekend.

Your ticket includes:

9 expert-led workshops
Two live Q&A sessions
Daily breakfast, lunch, snacks, coffee, and tea
Workshop materials + reflection guides (provided onsite)
Live creation of your Self-Leadership Code (you’ll leave with it completed)
Trauma-informed pacing and support
A curated gift (revealed in the room)

ONE-TIME PAYMENT OF

$2297 USD

Save $400!

PAYMENT PLAN

$2697 USD

Secure your spot with a $500 deposit, then split the remaining balance into small, manageable payments over 6–8 months.

VIP Integration Experience

For the woman who wants the shift to stick – with personal support and guided integration after the weekend.

Everything in the Live Experience, plus:

Most supported option: private sessions + 30 days of post-event support so you don’t go home and slide back into old patterns.
Intimate integration dinner with Lisa & Dr. Peter: A private dinner experience
Post-Event Reconnection Session (60 Minutes): A live online reconnection meeting with Lisa and Peter, held 4–6 weeks after the event.
A private coaching session with Dr. Peter online post event
A private coaching session with Lisa online post event
A digital guide and workbook for integration support
WhatsApp Group Chat for continued support post event for 30 days

ONE-TIME PAYMENT OF

$2997 USD

Save $400!

PAYMENT PLAN

$3397 USD

Secure your spot with a $500 deposit, then split the remaining balance into small, manageable payments over 6–8 months.

For full terms and conditions, please click here.

Have other questions about travel, cost, payment plans, or details about the event?

Email hello (at) lisasonni.com with questions OR click the button below to book a free 10-minute discovery call with Lisa to get your questions answered about the event.

“The bond doesn’t feel like a chain anymore. It feels like a memory.”

— R., Unbreakable 2025 Attendee

what happens after i pay?

After you reserve your spot, you immediately receive a confirmation email with:

The exact event location (Boston Back Bay)
The full schedule
Hotel recommendations for discounted rates
What to bring

“This group is set in a SAFE environment. You will learn things you haven’t learned before…”

“I have always blamed myself… This group has helped me to see that the things I was seeing were not only real but done on purpose. I am not fundamentally wrong.”

“Something was still missing… Their support, coupled with being in a group of people that ‘get it’, has allowed me to finally start getting ‘ME’ back.”

Imagine What Could Be Different

Imagine waking up six months from now and no longer second-guessing every decision you make.

Imagine saying no without carrying guilt for days afterward.

Imagine trusting your instincts without immediately questioning yourself.

Imagine no longer feeling responsible for managing other people’s emotions.

Imagine knowing who you are without needing approval, validation, or permission.

Imagine feeling calm inside your own life.

Imagine feeling at home within yourself.

That is the woman we’re gathering to support.

And that is the woman waiting for you on the other side of this experience.

samantha's story from unbreakable toronto 2026

Samantha left with a clearer understanding that her voice mattered, her choices belonged to her, and the woman she had always been was still there.

Samantha came to Unbreakable in Toronto while she was still rebuilding her sense of self after an abusive relationship. She wanted to feel grounded again, trust herself more deeply, and reconnect with the parts of her that had been buried under confusion, fear, and survival.

By the end of the weekend, Samantha said she understood something differently: she had power. She thought power had to be loud and assertive, and that didn’t feel authentic to her, but she realized she can have quiet power.

She could see where she had been giving it away. She could feel the difference between explaining herself and honoring herself. She left with a clearer understanding that her voice mattered, her choices belonged to her, and the woman she had always been was still there.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q. Is this event only for women who have already left the relationship?

No. This event is for women at different stages: still in it, leaving, out but still emotionally affected, or rebuilding after the relationship. You do not need to be fully healed or have everything figured out to attend. You only need to be ready to look honestly at the patterns, conditioning, guilt, and self-abandonment that have kept you disconnected from yourself.

Q. Is this therapy?

No. This is an educational and coaching-based event, not therapy. You’ll receive teaching, guided reflection, practical tools, and support inside a trauma-informed group environment. The focus is not diagnosing you or processing every detail of your past. The focus is helping you understand what happened, what it trained you to carry, and how to begin leading yourself differently now.

Q. Will I have to share my story?

No. You are never required to share anything you don’t want to share. Some women share, some listen, some process quietly. You can participate in a way that feels safe and respectful to you. This is not a room where you have to perform vulnerability to belong.

Q. What will I actually leave with?

You leave with more than insight. You leave with language for what you have been carrying, clarity around the roles and rules that trained you to abandon yourself, tools to notice guilt and pressure without obeying them, and a personal self-leadership code you can take into your real life. The goal is not to overwhelm you with homework. The goal is to help you become harder to pull away from yourself.

Q. What is the difference between Standard and VIP?

Standard includes the full event experience, workshops, group connection, meals listed on the agenda, and the full-room social experience. VIP is for women who want a deeper, more intimate experience with additional access and post-event integration. VIP includes the private VIP dinner, VIP group chat, extra digital workbook, post-event reconnection meeting, and one virtual 1:1 with both Lisa and Peter after the event. VIP is offered as a complete upgrade, not à la carte.

Q. How do I know if I’m ready for this?

You may be ready if you are tired of organizing your life around guilt, fear, confusion, or someone else’s reactions. You may be ready if you keep asking, “Why do I still feel responsible?” or “Why do I keep abandoning myself even when I know better?” You do not have to feel confident to come. This event is for the woman who is ready to stop only surviving what happened and start building a life that feels like hers again.

Q. Do you offer payment plans?

Yes, when available, payment plans allow you to reserve your seat and pay the remaining balance over time. Payment plan payments are still subject to the same no-refund policy and must be completed according to the payment schedule.

Q. What is included in the event price?

Your registration includes the workshop experience, teaching sessions with Lisa Sonni and Dr. Peter Salerno, event materials, listed meals/refreshments, group connection opportunities, and any items specifically listed on the event page for your ticket level. Travel, hotel, transportation, parking, and meals outside the listed agenda are not included.

Q. Are travel and hotel included?

No. Travel, hotel, transportation, parking, and any personal expenses are not included in your registration. You are responsible for booking and paying for your own travel and accommodations.

Have other questions about this event? Let's talk!

Email hello (at) lisasonni.com with questions OR click the button below to book a free 10 minute discovery call with Lisa to get your questions answered about the event.